Imagine What It Would Be Like

Do you know what intrapersonal communications is?themselves,
Many have not even heard of the word, yet it can be- What are my goals for the year?
one of your most valuable tools to achieving your- What do I want to accomplish?
goals. Many ask, "Isn’t that like- What does it look and feel like?
interpersonal?" No. Intra means self, getting personal- What are the details?
with your self. And I mean intellectually. Intrapersonal- When will this be done by?
communications is your thoughts & conversations with- How will I achieve this?
yourself. And the ones that can benefit you the most- Who’s help do I need? I have heard from
are the ones that use all of your senses. You seemany of them that they will go one-step further and
when you tell your self what you desire and see theeven meditate on the questions they have until they
image in your mind, you are bring clarity to your desire.answers or solutions come to them. And sometimes,
When you add in your other senses, of what it feel,when they see a solution, they think forward and ask,
smell, taste like etc, you are then reinforcing the“And then what? What else do I need to
importance to yourself. I think that in today’sknow and do to succeed?” This is one of the
society we are taught not to talk to ourselves. Therereasons that their success is almost assured. They
is almost a stigmatism that you are some how not okknow what they want and they know how they are
if you do. Yet, the irony is that, the successful people ingoing to get it. Their communication skills with
the world, the ones that succeed and achieve theirthemselves, are practiced and followed through on. I
dreams and desires, the ones that are the movers andhave also noticed that people who don’t
the shakers, talk to themselves. And they do it daily.speak with themselves, will just quickly make a new
And what are they saying? Several things actually.years resolution and then forget about it. There is no
They are: Encouraging themselves when things getclarity or details on what it is or how it will happen.
challenging. They know that it can be easy to slide intoThere is no emotion or desire driving them towards it.
fear, worry or negativity and that it is important to stayThen another year goes by and they sit and wonder
positive. They understand it’s important towhy hasn’t anything changed. My desire for
look for solutions and be open to ideas to realize thatyou is to choose to make 2006, the year that you
all things are possible. You can’t do this ifmake a difference. The year that you discover the
you are bemoaning what is happening to you. Theyvalue and benefits of Intrapersonal Communication.
also understand that it is through failures that we learnChoose now to find out who you really are. Start
the best and the fastest. They see the challenges astalking with yourself today and really get to know
stepping-stones to the next level and they remindyourself on a more personal level.
themselves of that factor. As well, they are asking