Is Your Company's Stress Management Program Stressful In Itself?

Some simple advice - and pass-along strategies - foreverything will fall apart the minute you turn your back.
reducing stress in the workplace.It leaves you hung up on time-consuming details, stifles
Stress is costing American business big time.the participation and growth of others, and creates
Estimates range from $80 billion to $300 billion annuallyunnecessary tension all around. Take the leap of faith.
in illnesses, absenteeism, diminished productivity,Learn to delegate. Assign responsibilities and give
accidents, mistakes, burnout, high turnover, and soaringothers the chance to prove themselves. You can dole
health insurance premiums.it out gradually, to gain confidence and minimize error,
It's no surprise, then, that many companies have beenbut begin unburdening yourself of the oppressive
fighting the stress epidemic aggressively with anminutia that's needlessly choking your life. You can
arsenal of anti-stress initiatives. But a nagging questionexperience a marked reduction in stress in a relatively
remains. If all the stress management programs outshort period of time simply by delegating.
there are so effective, why are so many workers stillBe a team player.
stressed out?It's more productive-and less stressful-to work as a
The answer may lie in the fact that someteam. In your job, in your family, in your community.
organizations are simply trying too hard. In an effort toWhen you spread the work and responsibility around
reduce stress, they are actually adding to it. Asthe pressure eases, everyone becomes more
well-intentioned as their stress programs may be,cooperative. As much as we like to think of ourselves
many are complex and time-consuming, require a lot ofas complete packages, we're not. We need others to
reading and recall, are heavy on theory and light oncontribute what we lack, to balance out our collective
practical advice, or just don't connect with employeesstrengths and weaknesses. Let go the urge to put it all
on their level...or with their specific problems.on yourself or take all the credit. Society is a team
Remember, what people who are stressed out lackeffort and success most gratifying when everyone's
most is time...and patience. They have no time toinvolved.
attend lengthy stress seminars that pull them awayRotate working on different projects.
from the very tasks that are stressing them out. TheyFor example, if you have three projects due next
have little patience to sift through wordy guides andweek, performing them in their entirety one after the
procedures to dig out those rare nuggets of adviceother can make each seem long, drawn out and
relevant to their situation. Some stress programstiresome. Instead, divide your time each day into thirds
merely address the symptoms of stress rather thanand work on all three. Each project will provide a
eliminate the causes. They have little lasting effect.refreshing break from the others, while allowing you to
Workers become frustrated and cynical, believing thatmake steady progress on all. Like a farmer rotating
nothing will work, and go right back to their costly,crops to keep the soil rich and fertile, varying tasks will
stressful ways.keep you more alert and imaginative, making the work
What, then, can management and human resourcesproceed more quickly and enjoyably.
professionals do to overcome these obstacles toAre you a checkaholic?
effective stress management, and "reach" theirHow much time do you waste excessively checking
employees with solutions that will connect...and stick? Athings. Check the weather. Check the time. Check the
good way to start is to offer simple, candid, targetedmarkets. Check your email. Check your hair. Check
strategies workers can quickly incorporate into theiryour voicemail. Check the news. Check your makeup.
lives-techniques that get their attention and produceCheck to see if your wallet is still in your pocket. How
immediate results. These are less intrusive, take little ormuch of your day are you frittering away doing this?
no time to implement, and get the user started on theMore than you might care to know. Ease up. Things
right track, with the right attitude. To give you somearen't going to fall apart when you're not looking. So
examples, I've selected the following ten workplaceresist the urge to receive constant, needless,
strategies I use in my books and seminars, which havemonotonous updates. Use that time to maintain your
been field-tested with positive feedback fromfocus and get more done. When you get the urge to
thousands of readers and participants worldwide.check on something...simply let it go.
Simply pass them along by email or interoffice memo. IForget about deadlines. How about startlines?
believe they can have a significantly positive effect onFor a society so obsessed with when a project gets
your employees, too.finished, we're curiously all too casual about when to
Do one thing at a time.get it started. And that can be the most critical factor
Do it mindfully. Do it well. Enjoy the satisfaction. Thenof all. Which may explain why so many deadlines
go on to the next thing. Multitasking might work foraren't met. Instead of stressing over when something
computers, but humans have yet to get the hang of it.is due, focus on getting it underway. Set a "startline."
A growing body of evidence affirms that trying toThat is, a time before which it's essential you get a
accomplish several things at once takes up more timeproject started, so it isn't performed in a rushed and
overall than doing them sequentially. It consumes anslapdash manner. If you stick to your startline, it not
excessive amount of mental energy, too, so youonly assures efficient, unhurried performance, it all but
fatigue more quickly. The lack of focus also leads toeliminates the need for a deadline...and the anxiety that
careless mistakes, shoddy work and unreliablegoes with it. Which "line" would you rather work under?
performance. Worst of all, having to do things over.Get it started.
This is no way to live. Give what you're doing yourBe a good gear switcher.
undivided attention. Take the time to get it right. You'llYou may have the kind of job where you constantly
be more productive, and less stressed, in the long run.have to drop something to take care of something
Chip away at projects with long lead times.else. This can be a never-ending source of stress and
When you get an assignment with a "luxury" of time,frustration. If you let it. Or, as unlikely as it seems now,
don't squander it. Get at least a start on it right away,you can condition yourself to get used to it...even enjoy
when your enthusiasm and understanding of it are at ait! When you prepare yourself for such interruptions,
peak. Then spend a little time on it each day to keepyou can make a clean break without anxiety, knowing
the momentum going. That way, every thought youyou'll return later on to tie up loose ends. Just give
have of the project will be a positive one: "I'm on thewhatever you're doing at the moment your undivided
case, I'm getting it done." Put it off, and every thoughtfocus...and let it go promptly when necessary. Quick
will be increasingly negative: "Yikes, I haven't eventransitioning is a skill, an art you can learn, master and
started yet!" Which can add up to big stress over time.take satisfaction in.
And a major crisis as the deadline nears, you'veStand up and stretch.
forgotten what to do, and your enthusiasm has beenEspecially if you have a desk or computer job. A day
supplanted by anxiety and dread. Get it going early.at work shouldn't be like an eight-hour plane ride.
You'll do a better job, in less time, without the stress.Periodically get off your chair and stand, stretching
Don't let unhealthy job stress persist.your arms and legs-even squatting, bending from side
If your workload or project is impossible to completeto side, rolling your head, walking about, etc. It'll get the
without pulling your hair out, doing a slapdash job orblood flowing more freely, loosen cramped muscles
suffering a near stroke for your trouble, speak up earlyand joints, help you think more clearly, and relieve
on rather than bottle it up and be unable to performsome of the stress. Give your body a quick tune-up at
the work accurately and professionally. And do it in aleast one or two minutes each hour.
positive way, by offering possible solutions: you'll needMaintain your presence of mind.
more time; you can do part of the project in theIt's easy to get flustered, panic and lose your
allotted time; or you'll require more help. If you're a goodcomposure when you're rushed and pressured. Your
competent worker your request should commandmistake level soars, carelessness abounds and civility
respect and compliance. It doesn't help anyone to sayoften goes out the window. Only making things worse.
nothing and let it eat away at your well-being, andPractice maintaining your presence of mind in pressure
subject both you and your company to poorsituations. Take slow deep breaths and approach the
performance.crisis with calmness and control. You'll discover you
Delegate.can handle things more efficiently, even more quickly,
Stress is often caused by an inability to let go, awhen you strive to keep your cool. Hysteria
constant need to micromanage, the fear thataccomplishes nothing.